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Men love blow jobs and when it comes to sex, it is the one thing they repeatedly ask for and the one thing they would really love more of. There are tips, tricks and techniques that can turn a ho-hum hummer into a va-va vroom wild ride. By mixing things up he’ll never know what to expect and you’ll have his knees weak before your lips ever touch him. Most guys will say that any blow job is a good one but if you want to keep him coming back for more and coming for you and you alone try these tips and tricks that’ll drive him wild.
Tease, torture and tantalize
Don’t dive for his penis right away. Just like you, he has many other erogenous zones all over his body. Take your time, find them, tease them, kiss him all over (except down there), lick him from his earlobe to his belly button, play with his nipples, touch him everywhere except where he really wants you to, gently graze his crotch as you move down to his thigh, let your breast rub across his penis as you move to reach the other leg, it’s all about the tease. You’ll have him quivering by the time your mouth reaches his penis. Try different positions
Try having him sit in a chair or lying down on a bed. Have him stand or kneel that is supposed to make the feeling more intense for him. For deep throating, I read if you hang your head off the bed upside down it is easier to take him down your throat. It worked but I got one hell of a head rush when I tried it. Experiment with what feels the best and is most comfortable for both of you. Use props
Rub different textured items over him before going down; a silk scarf, a feather, a leather strap… Rub the items gently across his body, around his penis, even across his testicles. You could even use different body parts like your breasts, your buttocks, your feet and toes, (I once gave my husband a foot job, it was something totally new and different and he loved it, a lot), even your eyelashes (butterfly kisses for a penis, that’s different). He’ll love the new sensations and think you’re a goddess for giving them to him. Depending on your comfort levels and what you may both enjoy there are many things that can be used during oral sex and other sex play, like flavored condoms, flavored gels, lotions, oils and lubricants, body dust, even toys like cock rings and vibrating cock rings and for those into wilder play there are ball harnesses and cages, ball spreaders, even penis leashes. Make him hot
Want to heat him up? Have a hot cup of coffee or tea or even a hot cup of cocoa (for those cold winter nights) sitting close by and take a drink right before wrapping your lips around him, your mouth will be warm and it’ll feel absolutely divine. You could also try the warming massage oils and edible lubricants that are available. Some are supposed to warm on contact while others say you have to blow on them, if it says blow what they really mean is use your hot breath on it like you’re trying to melt a frosty window. Cool him off
Is it sweltering hot outside, give him a cool blow job that is sure to please. Have a glass full of ice, a Popsicle, or even a bowl of ice cream close by. Put some in your mouth then put him in your mouth. He’ll be in heaven. Make sure to have swallowed everything else or let it melt first because the direct cold may be too intense for him. Other things than can give an icy cool tingle are minty creams and gels, strong mints like Altoids, even breath sprays and cough drops can make your mouth cool and tingly and if used right before and he’ll feel the residual tingle. Lick him like a lolly pop
Your best tool is with you all the time – your tongue. Tease him with sweet little tongue flicks, especially on the underside of his shaft and the ridge under the head. Go up and down his rod with firm licks and flicks. You can even swirl your tongue around him like you were licking an ice cream cone. Want to drive him really crazy? Keep up the tongue swirls while he’s in your mouth and you’re bobbing up and down. It might take some practice, but I’m sure he won’t complain about being a guinea pig. If you want to make him taste more like a lollypop you can try flavored lubricants like Good Head by Doc Johnson. You can use your nails and your teeth
Many women think these are totally off limits. A man’s penis is not as delicate as a clitoris. If done gently you can caress his shaft with your fingernails or delicately nip at the head with your teeth. Something most men love is you running your nails around the base of his penis, along the edges where his torso and legs connects and above all else scratch his balls. If you scratch his balls the right way he’ll be putty in your hands. Also scratch up underneath his balls, if you can master the ball scratching technique while sucking him that’s even better. Don’t sit on your hands, use them
Learn how to effectively use your hands. There are all kinds of ways to use your hands before and during a blow job. They can be used to get him warmed up which will make him come faster once you’re actually sucking him. There are ways to use your hands as extensions to reach the base of his penis where your mouth can’t and you can alternate back and forth between your mouth and your hands to give your neck and jaw a break. You can learn to use one hand, both hands at the same time, twist gently in different directions, and so much more. There are classes you can take that actually teach these techniques. Don’t neglect the nuts
His penis stands erect and proud gathering all your attention while his testicles just hang there unnoticed and neglected. Men love to have their testicles lavished with attention, you know they are as obsessed with them as they are their penises. He will worship you like a goddess if you give a lot of good attention to the twins. You can rub them, gently caress them with your nails, lightly squeeze them, tickle them, lick them, or carefully suck on them. Try to give them their own attention then combine playing with them while sucking him. Show enthusiasm
Men love women that love to give blow jobs. They always remember the one’s that were really into it. So get over your hang ups, practice your technique and get down to business. It’ll improve your sex life and unless he’s an absolute ass, he’ll return the favor (if he’s an ass just get rid of him and save your tricks for the next guy). If you’re worried about smell or hygiene, suggest taking a shower together beforehand or run him a bath and give him a sexy soap up. Just try thinking sexy thoughts and enjoy it as much as possible or at least pretend that you enjoy it. And one last thing, if you are in a monogamous safe relationship…swallow, men absolutely love it, but it should always be your choice to do it. © 2008 Roxanne Rhoads  Roxanne Rhoads is a freelance writer, erotica author, poet, and editor She writes everything from articles to web content. She is interested in all things sexual so her writing focuses mainly on topics involving sex including; erotic fiction and poetry, how to articles, product reviews, female sexuality, and female sexual rights. A sexual connoisseur and creature of the night, She is an outwardly quiet person who best expresses herself with the written word. If she wants you to know or believe something about her it will appear in her writing. A lady must always have secrets and she guards hers closely. A voyeur at heart she lurks in the shadows learning the secrets of others while she remains a mystery. Roxanne's writing has appeared in Playgirl Magazine, on Tit-elation.com, JustusRoux.com, Oysters and Chocolate (Online) and The Erotic Woman (Online). You can learn more about her at Roxanne's Realm, My Space and her group for erotica readers and writers, Erotica Lovers.
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